A great post yesterday at Emotional Intelligence for PMs: “People Skills – Not So Important to Project Managers”. It reminded me that I needed to answer this particular question more in detail.

Why are soft skills essential for Project Managers?

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You all know I just keep on rambling about this issue until no one ever wonders about that question again. That might take a while.

Let’s forget all the current globalization and mobilization for a moment. Just go back to what Project Management is all about. It is the management of scarce resources towards a defined goal using a temporary organizational structure (that’s my current definition).

As PMs we allocate scarce resources in such a way that we get closer to our desired project goal. We prioritize, monitor, shift and adjust money, time, people, equipment and all other things that are limited in supply. We operate in a temporary organizational form, which means we either have no authority or limited authority or an ambiguous authority. Either way, “authority” is an issue.

Projects typically do not operate under ideal circumstances. We have to motivate people, under time pressure, with uncertain conditions towards an uncertain goal. We need to motivate them to keep on trucking towards the next corner.

With ever changing conditions, resources need to be reorganized and re-prioritized. Decisions are to be made continuously. People need to choose under uncertain conditions; a situation in which they are most likely reluctant to do so. As a PM you need to facilitate and stimulate your stakeholders to take action.

These are most likely the stakeholders with who we have a clash of authority. We use their people, we use their equipment, and we are rearranging their business process. We are basically thrashing up their garden. Oh boy, what would a Project Manager do without his negotiation skills.

Remember that clear and defined goal we are working towards? It might be a moving target. Stakeholders change their minds. By discussing, thinking about it and reflecting on the subject, a stakeholder can change his mind on what he wants. Or the project team interpreted requirements differently than intended by a stakeholder. Two people didn’t understand each other correctly. Did I just hear anyone scream “communication skills”?

Yes, planning is a Project Management skill. So is getting the right estimates from reluctant developers. So is explaining to management the uncertainties involved in the planning.

I agree with Anthony Mersino in the EQ for PM post I mentioned in the beginning:

“…the single most important reason that people skills are important to project managers: Project Management is Getting Work Done Through People!”

What does a Project manager has to do?

He can watch the “Project Management in 15 Minutes” video.

Or just follow the “Flow Of Stakes”:

  • Stakeholders have stakes
  • Stakeholders communicate their stakes by means of requirements to the process or the product
  • Project management should make every stakeholder a winner by accepting and inventing requirements that keep satisfying the stakes of individual stakeholders and are not conflicting with the general process and product
  • Project management should give continuous feedback on the state of the stakes
  • Based upon the feedback, the requirements might change. In this way, a new cycle starts.

Soft skills are essential to Project Management. Without soft skills you would not be able to perform any “hard skill”. And you better be darn good at it. If you run projects you have an impact on many people. It does matter.