Why isn’t a document on a shared workspace “social media”?

Social media is all about having a “conversation”. An exchange of information between persons.

You can write your question in a word document. Upload it. Send me a mail. I check the mail. Download the document. Answer the question. Well, you get the idea.

Yes, it’s a hassle. But that is not why this conversation isn’t “social media”.

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Social media puts the emphasis on the person in the conversation.

It is not only about the message itself, but also about the persona’s of the people involved in the exchange.

That is why we love big photos of REAL people next to the conversation. That is why it’s important to have an prominent “about” page on your blog.

When we have a conversation the actual content of the message is only a small part of the story. Based upon our perception of the other person we fill in blanks, we create assumptions, we draw conclusions and color the message to a more “detailed” image.

Social media supports multiple mechanisms to help us fill in the blanks.

LinkedIn displays the badges of the groups you are a member of. People see the groups you are associating yourself with and create assumptions based on that. I am a member of the Triiibes group; so I must be cool.

The mechanism works the same as the “I am a PC, I am a Mac” campaign. If you have a PC, people think you are a nerd, if you have a Mac, people think you are cool and creative.

LinkedIn provides recommendations. People write recommendations for other people. Building a reputation. If I need a plumber, I ask my neighbour. I trust my neighbour, so I trust the plumber he recommends. The reputation that is build up and propagated is used by me to build up a mental construct of the persona.

Social media puts the person back into online conversations. That is what makes it “social”.